There's this pool in the complex that we live in that has pretty much become my daughter's home away from home this summer - they're Australian afterall, so they love to swim.
Anyway, since the pool opened Meg has taken them there nearly every day ... and nearly every day they've complained that I've been too busy to go with them. So, this past Friday I finally went with them. When we got there, the complaining started again - this time because I wasn't in the pool with them!
"C'mon Dad! Come in!"
"We want you to play with us Daddy!"
"Why didn't you bwing your bavers Dadda?"
So come Saturday, I decided to take them to the pool again and this time, get in the water.
We walked in the pool gate and they immediately ran to the water, leaving me to pick up towels and hats and goggles and assorted swimming attire. And apparently the 50 meter walk to the seats where I put their stuff was too long for them.
"When are you coming in Dad?"
"Dad! You said you were coming in ... what are you doing?"]
"Come on pwease Dadda"
They went on and on at the top of their little lungs! Just four minutes into the barrage I looked up at the lifeguard on duty who gave me a look that said; "Dude ... get in the water with your kids or shut them up".
Now, this was early morning and it was rather chilly, so I didn't exactly cannonball into the water. Again came the shouting:
"Hurry up Dad!"
"Come play Daddy!"
"Come up this end wiff me Dadda."
When I finally went under and arose from the frozen depths, it was to a chorus of cheering and hooting. I spent the next 50 minutes playing, splashing, being the pool monster, organizing races, giving piggyback rides, throwing beach balls and dragging kids around on noodles.
Then i occurred to me: my kids wanted me in the water because they wanted to show me off. They wanted to proudly display to all the old couples at the pool that their dad wanted to spend time with them and make them laugh!
All this time I'd been putting work ahead of the pool, emails ahead of playing, and meetings ahead of games, but rather than be mad at me or feel jealous of my job, all my three daughters wanted was to love on me and show me off as a fun-loving dad.
What I'm learning is that I recently spent all this time in the woods trying to get my relationship with God right ... but had spent no time in the pool getting my relationship with my girls right. And all they really wanted was an opportunity to show me how much they love to be with me!
So now I'm spending time in the woods and the pool. Anyone know of any other places with a double 'o' in them?