Hey parents!
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A. Feeling this way, acknowledging that need for other people—for connecting with people in a deeper way—is normal.
It is even healthy. God Himself made us that way intentionally.
B. When I say the words, “In the beginning,” many of you know exactly what book of the Bible I am referring to—
Genesis. And many of you here could tell me everything that God created, and how long it took Him to do it, and
how He said everything was “good” at the end of each day spent creating. And a lot of you could tell me that the
next to the last thing the book of Genesis tells us God made was man, and that God named him Adam. Does any of
this sound familiar?
C. Right there in the second chapter of Genesis we read: When the LORD God made the earth and the heavens—and
no shrub of the field had yet appeared on the earth and no plant of the field had yet sprung up, for the LORD God
had not sent rain on the earth and there was no man to work the ground, but streams came up from the earth and
watered the whole surface of the ground—the LORD God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed
into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being (Genesis 2:4-7 NIV).
D. For the next eleven verses Adam is alone. In those verses we read about the garden that Adam is placed in. We
read about this incredibly sweet deal he has—he can eat anything he wants, except from one tree, and he knows
what is expected of him—to work and care for this paradise. Now think about this. At this point, there was the
garden, there were the animals, there was Adam and there was God. In theory, it sounds like Adam has no reason
to complain about anything. What else could he possibly want? If Adam had said he was lonely, God had every right
to respond by saying, “Lonely? You’re lonely? What about Me? I’m here, you can hang out with Me. Don’t you know
that all of Me is more than enough for all of you? You have no reason to be lonely, get over it.”
We don’t know if Adam complained about anything to God. Adam may not have even known what loneliness was, or
realized that what he was missing was other people. If existing as the only human was all he knew, he may not have
known his experience was incomplete. But God knew. God knew that this picture of humanity was not done with
just the one human. God knew that like every other creature in the garden that had a suitable partner, Adam was in
need of something more. Adam needed community with another person.
E. Listen to this:
The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Now the LORD
God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man
to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So the man
gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field. But for Adam no suitable helper
was found. So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of
the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out
of the man, and he brought her to the man.
The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken
out of man” (Genesis 2:18-23 NIV).
Hey parents!
Hey parents!